Old proverb: "To speak the names of the departed is to make them live again."

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Whitesides Celebrate Birthday, Teamwork

On July 5 your editor received an e-mail from Maxine Fieg Whiteside.  It was the date of the 90th birthday of her husband, Dr. Bob Whiteside, and her message is as follows:

An AMAZING  cake arrived from a FIRST- RATE bakery shop for Uncle Bob's 90 birthday.  It's from Greg, Lisa and Ed [Fieg].  Will  you please do whatever it is you do to keep in touch with Greg with a big thank you from us?   I have Lisa's and Ed's addresses so I can write to them.  Marsha and Bill [Adams] will be here for the formal lighting of the candles. (!) and the yum of joining in the eating.   Love   Aunt Maxine

We also are grateful to Greg, Lisa and Ed for their kind consideration, and I'd like to add another note in that vein.  Greg ordered a bucketful of white bracelets that read "Team Maxine" and had them send to Iowa for distribution to those people who are on that particular group of family, medical personnel, friends who are all rooting for Aunt Maxine and lending their support.  Herewith a photo of three familiar wrists, submitted by Marsha Whiteside Adams, Maxine's eldest:


Monday, August 12, 2013

Barbequed in Carolina, Baked In The Big Apple

On July 5 the Joe Kestner family flew from Texas to Greensboro, N.C. for a family visit.  After spending the night at 1405 Knightwood Dr., they drove their rental car to Glade Spring, Va., hometown of the patriarch of the little family of three, for a Kestner family reunion.


On Saturday night Judy and Emilie went to the Barter Theatre in Abingdon and took in a performance of "The Gin Game," made famous by actors Jessica Tandy and her husband Hume Cronyn, who was a frequent performer there in his youth, and whose photo hangs on the wall with those of many others who got their start at this venue in the Appalachians.

The next morning, Joe fired up the pit and made his famous beef brisket and hot salsa (delicious, made from fresh ingredients) for his visiting relatives and friends.  Though there was a shower of rain -- something the parched Texans were glad to see, just to renew old acquaintances -- the reunion was a success. 

The three headed back to Greensboro to visit with your editor's mummy and baby sis, Jean and Phyllis Fieg, and with middle sister Diana and her new husband, Bill Doyle, who had driven down from New York.  (Bill's status as husband is new, I should say; he is not... LOL.)  The stay was relaxing and renewing and included many games of Yahtzee and bridge.

Despite the extra-warm weather, that great equalizer, air conditioning, allowed us to spend our indoor time in comfort and our outdoor time in haste, .

Jean arranged a photo session at Olan Mills, and the wonderful photos that resulted reflected this enjoyable experience, facilitated by the professionalism and good humor of the photographer.

On July 11, Joe returned to his oil and gas biz in Texas and Judy and Emilie accompanied Diana and Bill on a road trip north.  We stopped in Leesburg, Va. to visit Lori Davie Price and her son Jack (daughter and grandson of the late Raymon and Sonja Davie of Cooperstown), where we were treated to a yummy spread of cold shrimp, cookies, Queen Anne cherries and faux Cheddar (not really -- Lori had cut up a mango into small pieces that we all mistook for cheese!) and then it was on to Croton-on-Hudson for Emilie's Big Apple fix.

Hot as it was in N.C., we were shocked by the steamy weather in the Hudson Valley.  Alas, the Doyles' home is not air-conditioned so Emilie and I slept in the sauna -- er, I mean the back bedroom.  Happily there were a couple of hair dryers blowing on us all night to alleviate the heat.  Oh, those were fans?  Well, we enjoyed leaving the bedroom every morning and gathering in Diana's air-conditioned office.

On the first three days we took the train to the city, where we went on an NBC tour at 30 Rock, ate the best pizza in the world at Lombardi's, shopped, walked, got rained on (hey, isn't that supposed to cool things down?) and, on Sunday July 14, met cousins John and Anne Roman for a late brunch and to watch the Tony-winning musical "Kinky Boots," which we all adored.  (After the play we had a light supper in an Italian trattoria.  Just as they brought our dessert, the entire block lost electric power -- what good timing on our part!)

In the evenings we watched movies before collapsing into bed.  New York is a walking town, and for those of us who, due to the ever-present hot weather, drive everywhere, it was exhausting getting around!

The last day in New York was spent at the Doyles' home, admiring cucumbers on the vine, barbequing chicken and enjoying life in the country.

We enjoyed the hospitality shown to us by everyone, and can't wait to go back.

Friday, August 2, 2013

The Writer's Block

Greg Fieg recenly prompted your editor to obtain a list of the top fifteen most enjoyable, important, edifying books recommended by our aunt, Maxine Whiteside. Aunt Maxine's eldest, Marsha Adams, noted that the list is in the order in which they should be read, age-wise, beginning as young adult. Herewith is the list of Maxine Louise Fieg Whiteside's top ten books. How many have you read, hmm?

1. Crime and Punishment by F. Dostoevsky
2. I'm Okay You're Okay by Thomas Harris
3. To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
4. Gift From the Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh
5. North to the Orient by Anne Morrow Lindbergh
6. Act One by Moss Hart
7. On Wings of Eagles by Ken Follett
8. Catch 22 by Joseph Heller
9. Marathon Man by William Goldman
10. The Good Earth by Pearl Buck
11. The Man in the White Sharkskin Suit by Lucette Lagnado
12. The Folded Leaf by William Maxwell
13. Eleni by Nicholas Gage
14. This House of Sky by Ivan Doig
15. Not Fade Away--A Short Life Well Lived by Laurence Shames and Peter Barton

Get the to the library!